14 Big Questions Atheists Still Want Believers To Answer Honestly

The divide between faith and scepticism has always been one of the most emotionally charged conversations out there.

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Most atheists aren’t trying to be dismissive or disrespectful, but they do get frustrated when asking questions that don’t seem to get clear, consistent answers. These are questions that go beyond “just believe” and into the logic, history, and contradictions that religion often asks people to overlook.

While believers may find comfort in faith, non-believers tend to look for clarity, evidence, and honesty. They’re not necessarily trying to win an argument; they’re trying to understand how people reconcile ideas that, to them, don’t quite add up. These aren’t small curiosities; they’re big, foundational questions that have been asked for centuries, and they still matter today.

Here are some of the biggest questions they’ll continue to ask in the hope of hearing an answer that truly makes sense.

1. Why does God need worship?

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If God’s all powerful and complete in himself, why does he require constant praise and devotion from humans? It seems odd that a perfect being would need validation or get upset when people don’t worship him enough, like he’s got some kind of ego that needs feeding.

The whole setup looks suspiciously like something humans would create, rather than what an actual supreme being would demand. A genuinely confident and complete God wouldn’t need His creation telling him how great he is all the time.

2. How do you know your religion is the right one?

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You were probably born into your faith and raised with it, so how can you be sure it’s the correct one when billions of people are just as convinced about completely different religions? You can’t all be right, but you’ve all got the same level of certainty based on the same type of evidence.

The fact that geography and family determine most people’s religious beliefs suggests it’s more about culture than truth. If you’d been born somewhere else, you’d likely believe something entirely different with the same conviction you have now.

3. Why does God hide?

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If God wants a relationship with people and for them to believe in him, why doesn’t he just show up clearly instead of leaving it ambiguous and open to interpretation? Making himself obvious would solve the problem of doubt and disbelief instantly, yet he apparently chooses to remain hidden.

The whole faith requirement seems like an unnecessary test when God could just prove he exists and then let people decide if they want to follow him. Hiding and then punishing people for not believing in something they can’t see doesn’t make sense for a loving being.

4. How do you reconcile God’s love with eternal punishment?

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The idea that a loving God would torture people forever for not believing in him during their short human lifetime seems massively disproportionate. No crime deserves infinite punishment, and a truly loving being wouldn’t set up a system where that’s even possible.

Human parents are considered abusive if they use excessive punishment on their kids, but God gets a pass for eternal torture? The standards we hold God to are weirdly lower than the standards we have for decent human behaviour.

5. Why is faith considered a virtue?

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In every other area of life, believing things without good evidence is seen as gullible or foolish, but in religion it’s praised as a positive quality. Why is it admirable to believe something just because you’re told to, rather than because you’ve got solid reasons?

Faith essentially means accepting claims without proper verification, which is exactly what we’re taught not to do in literally every other context. It seems like a way to shut down critical thinking rather than an actual pathway to truth.

6. How do you deal with the problem of evil?

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If God’s all powerful, all knowing, and all good, why is there so much suffering in the world, especially suffering of innocent children and animals who haven’t done anything to deserve it? You can’t have it all three ways because the existence of evil contradicts at least one of those qualities.

Saying it’s all part of a plan or necessary for free will doesn’t really address why an all powerful being couldn’t create a world with free will but without bone cancer in kids. The explanations usually just switch the problem around rather than solving it.

7. Why does God care about trivial things?

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Religious texts spend loads of time on what you eat, what you wear, and who you sleep with, which seems bizarre for messages from the creator of the universe. If God’s trying to communicate important truths, why focus on fabric blends and shellfish instead of, say, preventing slavery or disease?

The priorities in religious texts look exactly like the concerns of ancient humans, not some timeless divine wisdom. A real God’s message would probably focus on things that actually matter universally instead of Bronze Age cultural hangups.

8. How do you know religious experiences are real?

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People from every religion report powerful spiritual experiences that they take as proof their specific God is real, but they can’t all be right since they’re describing different and contradictory things. What makes your religious experience valid but someone else’s from a different faith mistaken or demonic?

Brain scans show that religious experiences correlate with specific neural activity, suggesting they’re internal rather than external. That doesn’t mean they’re not meaningful to you, but it does suggest they’re not actually contact with a being outside your own mind.

9. Why does the Bible contain so many errors and contradictions?

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If God inspired or wrote the Bible, you’d expect it to be consistent and accurate, but it’s full of historical mistakes, scientific errors, and passages that directly contradict each other. How can it be the perfect word of God when it gets basic facts wrong and can’t even agree with itself?

The usual answer is that it’s metaphorical or that humans wrote it so mistakes crept in, but that just admits it’s not actually divine. Either it’s God’s word and should be perfect, or it’s a human document that reflects the knowledge and biases of its time.

10. Why did God wait so long to reveal himself?

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Humans existed for roughly 200,000 years before any major religion showed up, which means God apparently watched countless generations live and die without giving them any chance to know him or be saved. Why would a loving God leave the vast majority of humans who ever lived without access to His message?

It makes more sense that religions emerged when human societies got complex enough to need them for social cohesion, rather than being revealed truth that God oddly delayed sharing for most of human history.

11. How do you decide which bits of scripture to follow?

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Most believers cherry-pick from their holy texts, following some rules while completely ignoring others from the same book. How do you decide which parts are still valid and which are outdated, and doesn’t that mean you’re using your own moral judgement rather than actually following God’s word?

If you need your own ethics to filter scripture and decide what’s actually moral, then your ethics are doing the work rather than the religion. That suggests morality comes from human reasoning and empathy, not from ancient texts.

12. Why does prayer work at the same rate as chance?

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Studies on prayer show it has no measurable effect beyond placebo, working at basically the same rate as random chance. If prayer genuinely connected you to an all powerful being who cares about you, you’d expect to see some statistical difference, but you don’t.

When prayers seem to work, it’s usually because of natural recovery, human effort, or coincidence. When they don’t work, there’s always an explanation for why God said no, or it wasn’t in His plan, which makes the whole thing unfalsifiable and therefore meaningless.

13. How is God different from the gods you don’t believe in?

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You probably dismiss Zeus, Thor, and thousands of other gods as mythology without a second thought, but you make an exception for your own God. What’s the actual difference in terms of evidence or logic because from the outside they all look like the same kind of claim?

The reasons you reject other people’s gods are the same reasons atheists reject yours. You’re already atheist about 99% of gods that humans have worshipped, atheists just go one god further with the same reasoning you already use.

14. Why does God communicate so poorly?

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If God wants people to understand His message and follow him, why is scripture so vague and open to thousands of different interpretations? You’ve got countless denominations all claiming to understand God’s word correctly but disagreeing on major points, which suggests the communication wasn’t very clear.

An all-knowing God could easily make His message crystal clear and impossible to misunderstand, but instead we’ve got texts that require scholarly interpretation and still leave people arguing. That looks like exactly what you’d expect from human writings rather than divine revelation.