Some advice that worked decades ago just doesn’t hold up in today’s world.
While well-intentioned, many classic boomer tips no longer fit the reality of 2025, whether due to the economy being completely different from when they were younger, technological having advanced, or changing social norms. While the principles behind some of this guidance make sense, at least in theory, these ideals don’t really have any real-world application anymore, so it’d be great if everyone stopped parroting them blindly.
1. “Just work hard and you’ll get ahead.”
While hard work is important, it’s no longer a guarantee of success. Wages haven’t kept up with inflation, job security is declining, and industries are evolving so fast that skills can become outdated in a few years. Simply working hard without strategy, networking, or adaptability isn’t enough anymore. These days, success often depends on working smart — learning in-demand skills, making connections, and taking advantage of new opportunities. Hard work still matters, but without direction, it’s no longer a guaranteed path to financial stability or career growth.
2. “A university degree will set you up for life.”
Decades ago, earning a degree was a near-guarantee of a good job and financial security. Today, degrees come with massive student debt, and many graduates struggle to find jobs in their field. The job market now prioritises skills and experience over traditional education. While some careers still require degrees, many high-paying jobs now favour technical skills, apprenticeships, and certifications. For many, an alternative route — like learning coding, digital marketing, or a trade — can be just as lucrative without the crippling debt.
3. “Buy a house as soon as you can.”
Source: Unsplash Homeownership was once the ultimate financial goal, but in 2025, skyrocketing prices, high interest rates, and stagnant wages make it out of reach for many. Unlike in previous generations, saving for a deposit now takes decades, not just a few years. For many (read: most), renting makes more sense financially, offering flexibility and avoiding massive mortgage debt. While buying property is still a good investment for some, the idea that everyone should prioritise homeownership is no longer realistic.
4. “Loyalty to your employer will pay off.”
In the past, staying with the same company for decades often led to steady promotions and secure pensions. Today, long-term loyalty rarely pays off, with many companies prioritising cost-cutting, outsourcing, and temporary contracts over employee retention. Job-hopping is now one of the fastest ways to increase earnings and career opportunities. Many workers find that switching jobs every few years results in bigger salary jumps than waiting for a raise from a single employer.
5. “If you just save your money, you’ll be fine.”
Saving is important, but in 2025, inflation eats away at savings quickly, and simply putting money aside in a bank account doesn’t build wealth. Interest rates on savings accounts are often lower than inflation, meaning money loses value over time. Building financial stability now requires investing — whether in stocks, index funds, or other assets. Relying solely on saving money in a bank account no longer provides the financial security it once did.
6. “You need to buy a car to be independent.”
Owning a car was once seen as essential, but in many cities, it’s now an expensive burden. With rising fuel prices, insurance costs, and urban areas prioritising public transport, many younger people are opting out of car ownership entirely. Ride-sharing services, electric bike schemes, and improved transport networks make car ownership unnecessary for many city dwellers. The cost of maintenance, taxes, and fuel means that for some, owning a car is more of a financial drain than a necessity.
7. “Just pick a career and stick with it.”
Previous generations often worked in one career for life, but today’s job market is far more fluid. Many industries are evolving so quickly that jobs that exist today might not in a decade, making career flexibility more important than ever. Most people will have multiple careers throughout their lifetime, switching industries as opportunities arise. The idea that you should pick one path at 18 and stick with it forever is outdated in a world where new fields and skills emerge constantly.
8. “Don’t talk about money — it’s rude.”
Older generations were taught that discussing salaries, debt, or financial struggles was impolite. But in 2025, open conversations about money are essential for fair pay, financial literacy, and avoiding common financial traps. Salary transparency helps close wage gaps and prevent underpayment, while discussing finances openly helps people make informed decisions. Keeping money conversations taboo only benefits employers and financial institutions, not workers.
9. “If you’re not married by 30, something’s wrong.”
Marriage used to be a milestone expected by a certain age, but social norms have shifted. Many people now prioritise career growth, personal development, or financial stability before settling down, if they choose to at all. With divorce rates still high and the cost of weddings increasing, rushing into marriage just for the sake of tradition no longer makes sense. Modern relationships are more flexible, and marriage is no longer the automatic life goal it once was.
10. “If you don’t have kids, you’ll regret it.”
Source: Unsplash Older generations often pushed the idea that having children was the natural next step in life. But in 2025, many people are choosing to remain child-free due to financial concerns, personal goals, or a desire for a different lifestyle. Raising children is more expensive than ever, and the idea that everyone must have kids to be fulfilled is outdated. Many people lead happy, meaningful lives without becoming parents, proving that family life isn’t one-size-fits-all.
11. “Social media is just a waste of time.”
Many boomers dismiss social media as a distraction, but in reality, it’s a major tool for networking, career growth, and even income generation. Influencers, entrepreneurs, and professionals use social platforms to build businesses, find opportunities, and create new revenue streams. While mindless scrolling can be unproductive, social media itself isn’t just for fun; it’s an integral part of modern business, communication, and personal branding. Dismissing it outright ignores its real value in today’s world.
12. “You don’t need therapy — just toughen up.”
Source: Unsplash Mental health used to be heavily stigmatised, with many boomers believing that talking about struggles was a sign of weakness. Today, therapy and mental well-being are widely recognised as essential parts of overall health. Ignoring mental health issues doesn’t make them disappear. Getting support, whether through therapy, self-care, or lifestyle changes, is now seen as responsible rather than unnecessary. Toughing it out doesn’t work for everyone, and modern society acknowledges that emotional health matters.
13. “You need to own physical things to prove success.”
Older generations often equated success with material possessions — big houses, fancy cars, and expensive watches. But in 2025, many younger people prioritise experiences, travel, and financial flexibility over accumulating “stuff.” Minimalism and digital lifestyles mean that owning less can actually provide more freedom. Success today is about financial security, work-life balance, and personal fulfilment rather than just expensive belongings.
14. “Stick it out, even if you’re miserable.”
Whether it’s a bad job, a failing relationship, or a situation that no longer serves you, older generations often advised “sticking it out” rather than making a change. But in today’s world, staying in an unhappy situation for the sake of stability isn’t always the best choice. Prioritising mental health, personal growth, and better opportunities is now more acceptable. Walking away from something that no longer works isn’t failure, it’s a step towards something better.
