Every generation has its own way of doing things, but some old-school habits don’t always hold up today.
While some Boomer etiquette rules still make sense, others feel outdated, unnecessary, or just plain awkward. Gen Z isn’t out here starting arguments about these things, obviously — they’re just quietly hoping they’ll fade away. If you’ve ever wondered why certain social norms feel a little forced, here’s a list of traditions that younger people are more than happy to leave behind.
1. Answering the phone just because it rings
Once upon a time, if a phone rang, you answered it, no questions asked. But Gen Z doesn’t follow that rule. Just because someone is calling doesn’t mean they’re entitled to immediate attention. Texting exists for a reason, and most of the time, a quick message works just fine. Unscheduled phone calls feel disruptive, especially when a simple text could have given some warning. If it’s urgent? Sure, a call makes sense. But expecting someone to drop everything just because their phone rings? That’s one etiquette rule Gen Z isn’t keeping.
2. Writing cheques for everything
There was a time when pulling out a chequebook at the grocery store wasn’t weird. But now, it feels like watching someone use a typewriter in public. The whole process takes forever, and with digital payments everywhere, it’s completely unnecessary. Venmo, Apple Pay, and even regular old debit cards are faster and easier. The only people still using cheques regularly are Boomers and landlords. If Gen Z has anything to say about it, this slow-motion payment method will be gone soon enough.
3. Sending long, formal emails for simple things
Source: Unsplash Why write a full-page email with a “Dear Sir or Madam” when a short, casual message will do? Boomers love formality in emails, even for things that don’t need it. Gen Z, on the other hand, prefers getting to the point. Most emails don’t need an introduction, a body, and a conclusion like it’s an essay. A simple “Hey, quick question…” or “Let me know what you think!” gets the job done. If it’s not a job application or a legal matter, there’s no need for all the extra fluff.
4. Insisting on a “firm handshake”
For Boomers, a firm handshake is the ultimate first impression. A weak grip earns you immediate judgement, but Gen Z doesn’t really care about this outdated sign of “strength.” Some people have sweaty hands, others don’t like touching strangers — it’s not that deep. Plus, after a global pandemic, people aren’t as eager to grip and shake hands with everyone they meet. A nod, a wave, or even a casual “Hey, nice to meet you” works just as well. Not everything has to feel like a business deal.
5. Leaving voicemails for no reason
Nothing triggers mild panic quite like seeing a “New Voicemail” notification. Why not just text? Boomers love leaving long-winded messages, even when a simple “Call me when you get a sec” would have done the trick. Most of the time, voicemails just sit there unheard because they’re a hassle to check. If it’s important, just send a text — it’ll get read way faster. Unless it’s life-or-death, the voicemail era is long over.
6. Expecting an immediate “thank you” card for everything
Thank-you notes are sweet, but the expectation to send one for every little thing feels outdated. If someone goes out of their way to do something huge, sure, a thank-you card is nice. But for a casual gift or a small favour? A heartfelt text is just as meaningful. Gen Z still believes in showing appreciation, but they’re not obsessed with handwritten notes. A quick “Thanks so much! Really appreciate it!” over text gets the message across just fine. No stamps, no trips to the post office, no problem.
7. Wearing “proper” clothes for things that don’t require it
Boomers love dressing up for occasions that don’t actually require it. Business casual for a Zoom call? No, thanks. Fancy slacks just to go to the bank? Why? Gen Z is all about comfort, and if something doesn’t require formalwear, they’re not wearing it. The days of wearing a full suit just to seem “put together” are fading. Unless it’s a job interview, a wedding, or a formal event, there’s no reason to ditch the comfy fit. Being overdressed feels as weird as being underdressed—it’s all about balance.
8. Keeping every single receipt “just in case”
Paper receipts pile up fast, and yet Boomers will stuff them into their wallets, glove compartments, and kitchen drawers like they’re valuable artefacts. Meanwhile, Gen Z prefers digital receipts that don’t clutter up their space. If something needs to be returned, it’s usually linked to an email or payment app. Keeping stacks of paper receipts for months “just in case” feels unnecessary. Unless it’s a big-ticket item, most receipts just end up forgotten in random coat pockets.
9. Ringing doorbells unannounced
Once upon a time, showing up at someone’s house unexpectedly was totally normal. Now, it’s a social crime. If you’re coming over, send a text first. No one likes the surprise of a random knock on the door. Gen Z thrives on digital communication, so a quick “Hey, mind if I stop by?” is all it takes. Dropping in unannounced feels intrusive, especially when people just want to chill at home in their pyjamas.
10. Keeping phone calls on speaker in public
No one needs to hear both sides of your conversation while waiting in line at the supermarket. Yet, some Boomers have a habit of putting their phone calls on speaker in public like it’s a personal podcast for everyone around them. Gen Z prefers keeping things private with earbuds or texts. Loud speakerphone conversations in public spaces feel unnecessary and, honestly, a little rude. Nobody needs to know your cousin’s latest drama while picking out produce.
11. Mailing physical bills instead of paying online
There was a time when sitting down to write out cheques for every bill made sense. Now, with online banking and autopay, mailing in a payment feels like something from another era. Yet, some Boomers still insist on doing it the old-fashioned way. Gen Z would rather tap a few buttons than deal with stamps and envelopes. It’s faster, easier, and there’s no risk of forgetting to send something on time. Plus, it saves paper, so it’s a win all around.
12. Insisting on working in an office just for the sake of it
For many Boomers, working from home still seems like slacking off. But after proving it works just fine during the pandemic, Gen Z sees no reason to waste time commuting if they don’t have to. If a job can be done remotely, why sit in traffic just to do the same work in an office? Some workplaces insist on in-person attendance, even when there’s no real reason for it. Gen Z values efficiency, and if a job can be done in sweatpants from home, they’re going to take that option every time.
13. Saying “just go talk to them” instead of texting
Boomers love face-to-face conversations, but not everything requires an in-person chat. When Gen Z needs to confirm a plan or ask a quick question, they’re sending a text. Walking across the office or making a call for something that could be resolved in a few words feels like unnecessary effort. It’s not about avoiding real communication, it’s about efficiency. Texts let people reply when they’re ready, instead of forcing an immediate conversation. It’s not rude, it’s just practical.
