Thanks to social media and the internet in general, it’s easier than ever to compare the way you look to everyone else.

Perhaps unsurprisingly, more often than not, you feel like you don’t measure up. Everyone else is thinner, has better hair, pretty or more handsome faces… the list goes on and on. Of course, we’re all our own worst critics, and the things your brain tells you when you look in the mirror (or down someone’s Instagram feed) aren’t always true. It’s time to quiet the noise, however, and figure out a way to feel confident in your body just the way you are. Here’s how to do exactly that.
1. Focus on your strengths, not your weaknesses.

It’s easy to dwell on what you think you lack, but confidence grows when you recognise what you do have. Make a list of your strengths, talents, and qualities that make you unique. When you start feeling insecure, remind yourself of these traits. Focusing on your positive attributes helps shift your mindset from comparison to self-appreciation.
2. Limit your time on social media.

Social media can make it feel like everyone else is living a perfect life — but those curated highlights rarely reflect reality. If scrolling leaves you feeling inadequate, take a step back. Set time limits for social media or unfollow accounts that make you feel less than enough. Remember, no one’s life is as flawless as it appears online.
3. Practice self-compassion.

Be as kind to yourself as you would be to a close friend. If you mess up, make a mistake, or don’t feel your best, don’t beat yourself up. Instead, remind yourself that it’s okay to be imperfect. Self-compassion helps you embrace your flaws and move forward with confidence instead of self-criticism.
4. Wear what makes you feel good.

Confidence in your own skin often starts with feeling good in your clothes. Wear outfits that make you feel comfortable, empowered, and authentic — not what you think everyone else expects. When you dress for yourself rather than for trends or approval, you radiate a confidence that’s uniquely yours.
5. Stop seeking validation from other people.

While compliments and praise can feel great, relying on external validation can be a shaky foundation for confidence. Focus on your own opinion of yourself. Ask, “What do I think?” rather than “What will they think?” Building internal validation helps you stay grounded in your worth, no matter what anyone else says.
6. Celebrate your personal progress.

Instead of comparing yourself to other people, compare yourself to who you were yesterday, last year, or five years ago. Celebrate the growth you’ve made, no matter how small. Recognising your progress helps you see that you’re on your own journey, and that’s what truly matters.
7. Surround yourself with supportive people.

Your environment plays a big role in your confidence. Spend time with people who uplift you, encourage you, and appreciate you for who you are. Distance yourself from those who make you feel judged or insecure. Positive relationships help you feel seen and valued, making it easier to embrace yourself.
8. Develop a healthy body image.

Your body is more than its appearance — it’s what carries you through life. Instead of criticising how you look, focus on what your body can do. Whether it’s walking, dancing, or simply breathing, appreciating your body’s abilities helps encourage gratitude and confidence in your own skin.
9. Practice gratitude daily.

When you focus on what you’re grateful for, it shifts your mindset away from comparison. Start a gratitude journal and write down a few things each day that make you feel thankful. This practice helps you focus on what’s good in your life, rather than what you think is missing.
10. Try new experiences.

Stepping out of your comfort zone can be a powerful confidence booster. Whether it’s picking up a new hobby, travelling to a new place, or learning a new skill, challenging yourself shows you what you’re capable of. Each new experience helps you grow more comfortable in your own skin.
11. Focus on your journey, not someone else’s.

Your path is unique to you, and comparing it to someone else’s will only distract you from your goals. Remind yourself that everyone has different timelines, challenges, and successes. Stay focused on your own journey and trust that you’re exactly where you need to be.
12. Practice daily affirmations.

Positive affirmations can help reshape the way you think about yourself. Each morning, say affirmations like, “I am enough,” “I trust myself,” or “I love who I am.” Repeating these affirmations helps build a habit of positive self-talk, which is crucial for long-lasting confidence.