Some people seem to think the world revolves around them and owes them everything on a silver platter.
That’s not the case, of course, but don’t tell them that — they’re not interested in how the rest of the world operates. Instead, they’ll constantly demand that you do these (extremely unreasonable) things for them whenever they ask.
1. They expect you to drop everything for them.
Entitled people seem to think your schedule is entirely flexible. They’ll call you up and expect you to be available at the drop of a hat, regardless of your own plans or commitments. It’s as if they believe their time is more valuable than yours, and you should be honoured to rearrange your life to accommodate them. Heaven forbid you can’t make it — prepare for a guilt trip of epic proportions.
2. They assume you’ll foot the bill every time.
When it comes to money, entitled people have a funny way of always “forgetting” their wallet. They’ll order the most expensive items on the menu, suggest splitting the bill equally when they’ve clearly eaten more, or simply expect you to pay because “you’re doing better than they are”. They basically see you as their personal ATM, always ready to dispense cash for their benefit.
3. They expect you to be their personal chauffeur.
Need a ride? An entitled person will assume you’re always available to play taxi. They’ll ask for lifts without offering petrol money, expect you to go out of your way to pick them up or drop them off, and act put out if you can’t accommodate their travel needs. If you turn them down, they won’t be happy.
4. They demand your undivided attention.
When an entitled person is talking, they expect you to hang on their every word. God forbid you glance at your phone or get distracted for a moment — they’ll act as if you’ve committed a cardinal sin. They seem to think they’re the most fascinating person in the world and can’t fathom why you wouldn’t be completely engrossed in their every utterance.
5. They expect you to solve all their problems.
When an entitled person has a problem, they see no problem dumping it in your lap and expecting you to fix it. Whether it’s work-related, personal, or just a minor inconvenience, they’ll present their issues to you as if you’re their personal problem-solver. They rarely consider that you might have your own challenges to deal with. After all, why should they have to figure things out for themselves when you’re there?
6. They assume you’ll always agree with them.
Entitled people often can’t fathom that someone might have a different opinion. They expect you to nod along with everything they say, and if you dare to disagree, they’ll act as if you’ve personally offended them. They think their views are the universal truth and anyone who thinks differently is simply wrong. Be prepared for a tantrum if you express a contrary opinion.
7. They expect you to break rules for them.
Source: Pexels Rules are for other people, not for the entitled. They’ll ask you to bend or break rules to accommodate them, whether it’s at work, in social situations, or even with legal matters. In their minds, they’re above the regulations that govern everyone else, and that you should be willing to risk your own neck to help them skirt the rules. Your potential consequences are, of course, not their concern.
8. They demand instant responses to their messages.
Source: Unsplash In the world of the entitled, their messages should be at the top of your priority list. They’ll send a text and expect an immediate reply, regardless of what you might be doing. If you don’t respond within minutes, they’ll follow up with more messages, calls, or even get upset with you for “ignoring” them. The concept of you having a life outside of responding to their communications seems foreign to them.
9. They expect you to be their emotional dumping ground.
Entitled people often see other people as their personal therapists, available 24/7 to listen to their problems and provide emotional support. They’ll call at all hours to vent, dump their issues on you, and expect you to make them feel better. However, this is usually a one-way street — don’t expect them to be there when you need support. Your role, in their eyes, is to be their emotional sponge, absorbing all their negativity without complaint.
10. They assume you’ll always take their side.
In any conflict or disagreement, an entitled person expects unwavering loyalty from you. It doesn’t matter if they’re clearly in the wrong — they expect you to back them up unconditionally. If you dare to point out their mistakes or suggest they might be at fault, prepare for accusations of betrayal. In their world, friendship means blind support, regardless of the circumstances.
11. They expect you to accommodate their schedule.
Entitled people think the world operates on their timetable. They’ll show up late without apology, cancel plans at the last minute, or expect you to rearrange your schedule to suit theirs. If you can’t meet at their preferred time, they’ll act as if you’re being unreasonable. The idea that you might have other commitments or preferences simply doesn’t compute in their self-centred world-view.
12. They demand special treatment everywhere.
Whether it’s at a restaurant, shop, or any service industry, entitled people expect to be treated like VIPs. They’ll demand upgrades, freebies, or bend-over-backward service, often at your expense if you’re with them. They’ll complain loudly about perceived slights and expect you to join in their outrage. They believe the world owes them special favours just for existing.
13. They expect you to prioritise their needs over your own.
In the mind of an entitled person, their needs always come first. They’ll expect you to put your own wants and needs on the back burner to cater to theirs. Whether it’s giving up your seat, sharing your food, or sacrificing your time, they assume you’ll happily put them first. The idea of mutual give-and-take in a relationship isn’t something they’re here for.
14. They assume you’ll cover for their mistakes.
When an entitled person messes up, they often expect other people to clean up their mess. They’ll make mistakes at work and assume you’ll fix them, or create social awkwardness and expect you to smooth things over. Taking responsibility for their actions isn’t in their playbook — that’s what other people are for, right? They think having a relationship with them means being their personal damage control team.
15. They expect constant praise and validation.
Entitled people often have an insatiable need for admiration. They expect lavish praise for even the smallest accomplishments, and can become sulky or angry if they don’t receive the validation they think they deserve. In their minds, they believe that every action they take is worthy of a standing ovation. Be prepared to constantly stroke their ego, or face their displeasure.
16. They assume you’ll always be available as their backup plan.
To an entitled person, you’re often seen as their Plan B (or C, or D). They’ll make other plans but expect you to be available if those fall through. They might even cancel on you if something “better” comes up, but heaven forbid you’re not free when they circle back around. In their mind, you should be grateful for any scrap of their time they deign to give you.
17. They expect you to read their mind.
Entitled people often assume others should intuitively know what they want or need without them having to communicate it. They’ll get upset if you don’t anticipate their desires or if you misunderstand their unexpressed wishes. They truly believe that their thoughts should be obvious to everyone around them. Be prepared for sulking or anger when you inevitably fail to be the mind reader they expect you to be.
