When someone truly loves you, it’s not just in the words they say—it’s in the way they act, the way they include you in their life, and the way they make you feel valued.
If you’re wondering just how much your partner cares, you don’t have to think very hard. It’ll be evident in everything they say and do. Here’s how you know your other half can’t imagine their life without you — hopefully you feel the same!
1. They make you a priority, no matter what.
It’s not always grand, sweeping gestures—though they’ll probably throw in a few of those too. What truly stands out is how they make time for you, no matter how busy life gets. Whether it’s rearranging their schedule just to be with you or staying up late to support you when you’re struggling, they always make sure you’re on their mind. Their actions show that, no matter what else is going on, you’re one of their top priorities.
2. They include you in their future plans.
You know they see a future with you when they talk about their long-term goals and make sure you’re part of the picture. Whether it’s daydreaming about a future holiday or making serious plans for your shared life down the road, they see you as a team, moving forward together. You’re not just in their present; you’re in their future too.
3. They notice the little things about you.
You’ve probably caught them remembering small details that you didn’t think anyone else would even notice. Whether it’s how you like your coffee or the way you scrunch your nose when you’re deep in thought, they pay attention. It’s these little things that show how well they know you, making you feel truly seen and valued.
4. They turn to you first for support.
No matter the situation, when something big happens—whether it’s a work crisis or a personal struggle—they turn to you first. They don’t just want you there when everything’s smooth sailing; you’re the person they can lean on when things get tough. You’re their support system, and they trust you with their vulnerability.
5. They make an effort to connect with your family and friends.
Your world is their world. They don’t just tolerate your family and friends—they make a genuine effort to connect with them. Whether it’s remembering your mum’s birthday or spending time with your best friend, they show that they care about the people you care about. They want to be involved in every part of your life.
6. They celebrate your achievements like they’re their own.
When something good happens for you, they’re right there, celebrating like they’ve won the lottery too. They take genuine joy in your successes, whether it’s landing a new job, finishing a project, or even nailing that tricky recipe you’ve been trying. They see your achievements as their own because they’re in your corner, every step of the way.
7. They care about your happiness more than their pride.
When a disagreement comes up, they don’t focus on being “right” or winning the argument. Instead, they’re willing to apologise or compromise because your happiness matters more than their pride. They understand that sometimes, putting your relationship first is about letting go of their ego and focusing on what truly matters.
8. They support your dreams, even the big, scary ones.
They’re your biggest cheerleader. Whether you’re thinking about changing careers, moving across the country, or taking a big leap in your personal life, they’re right there, supporting you every step of the way. They believe in you, even when you’re unsure of yourself, and they’ll help you take those risks, no matter how intimidating they seem.
9. They make mundane moments feel special.
It’s not just the big events that matter; it’s the quiet, everyday moments. Whether it’s folding laundry together or grabbing groceries, they find ways to make those little moments feel meaningful. These small acts show that it’s not the activity that matters—it’s the fact that they’re spending that time with you.
10. They listen—really listen—to what you have to say.
When you speak, they’re all in. Whether you’re venting about your day or sharing your deepest thoughts, they’re fully engaged, remembering the little details, and asking follow-up questions. They make you feel heard, not just listened to, and that’s a big deal. You can count on them to be there when you need to talk.
11. They go out of their way to make you feel loved.
Words are nice, but actions speak louder. They show their love in the little things—maybe it’s a surprise text, a spontaneous hug, or a note left for you to find. It’s not just about telling you they love you; it’s about proving it every day.
12. They’re protective, but not controlling.
They care about your well-being—whether it’s reminding you to drive safely or checking in when you’re having a rough day. But they do it out of love, not control. They give you space when you need it and show concern without being overbearing. It’s about finding that balance between looking out for you and respecting your independence.
13. They value your opinion and ask for your input.
You’re not just a sounding board; they actually value what you have to say. Whether they’re making big life decisions or small daily choices, they ask for your perspective and give it weight. It shows they see you as an equal partner, and that your thoughts and ideas matter to them.
14. They always find ways to make you laugh.
Laughter is a sign of love. Whether they’re making goofy jokes, teasing you with a bit of banter, or sharing inside jokes, they’re constantly trying to bring a smile to your face. They know that joy is a key part of your bond, and they put in the effort to keep things fun and playful.
15. They respect your boundaries.
They know that being close doesn’t mean you need to share every detail of your life. If you need time to yourself, they respect that. If you’re uncomfortable with something, they listen and adjust. They understand that boundaries help keep relationships healthy and strong.
16. They’re proud to be with you.
They don’t shy away from showing you off. Whether it’s holding your hand in public or sharing your accomplishments with other people, they’re not afraid to let the world know how much they care about you. They’re proud to have you in their life, and they make sure you know it.
17. They work through challenges with you.
When tough times hit, they don’t walk away—they stand by your side. They face challenges head-on and make sure that, no matter what, you’re in it together. They’re committed to working through the hard stuff because they see you as a team, and they wouldn’t want to face life’s challenges with anyone else.
18. They bring out the best in you.
They encourage you to take risks, go after your dreams, and grow as a person. They don’t try to change you—they simply inspire you to be the best version of yourself, all while loving you for who you are right now.
19. They share their vulnerabilities with you.
They trust you with their fears, dreams, and insecurities. Opening up in this way shows they see you as a safe space—a partner they can rely on emotionally. They’re not afraid to be vulnerable because they trust that you’ll be there to support them through it all.
20. They tell you, often and sincerely, that they love you.
They don’t just say it once and leave it at that. Whether it’s through words, actions, or both, they make sure you know how much you mean to them. It’s not just a casual “I love you” at the end of the night; it’s a constant reminder of how much they care, and how much they can’t imagine their life without you.
