Holidays are meant to be a time for relaxation and bonding, but the reality is that even the best trips can lead to petty arguments.

When you’re out of your normal routine, tired from travel, and trying to make the most of every moment, tensions can easily flare. Here are 14 common fights couples find themselves having on holiday and why they happen. Hopefully, you’re both able to realise you’re being tetchy and can move on quickly so you don’t ruin your trip!
1. The packing disagreement

One person insists they need five pairs of shoes “just in case,” while the other is frustrated that their carry-on now weighs 20kg. Packing disputes are classic holiday arguments, usually stemming from differing ideas of what’s “essential.” It’s less about the luggage and more about balancing practicality and indulgence.
2. Getting lost (and blaming each other)

Wandering off the beaten path can be romantic—unless you’re lost and running late. The tension escalates when one person blames the other for poor navigation, not listening to directions, or relying too much on Google Maps. Stress levels rise, and suddenly, you’re arguing on a street corner.
3. The itinerary clash

One person wants to pack every moment with sightseeing, while the other dreams of lounging by the pool all day. Trying to balance adventure with relaxation can lead to heated debates about how to spend your time. At its core, this fight is about differing travel priorities.
4. Over-spending vs. budget-consciousness

Holidays can get pricey fast, and disagreements often arise over how much to spend. Whether it’s splurging on a fancy dinner or sticking to street food, one person’s idea of treating themselves might clash with the other’s need to keep an eye on costs.
5. The “too much time together” meltdown

Even couples who adore each other can feel the strain of spending 24/7 together. Without the usual breaks of work or social commitments, little quirks that were cute back home can start to grate. It’s not about loving each other less—it’s about needing a breather.
6. The photo-taking feud

One person wants to snap endless pictures of every scenic spot and meal, while the other just wants to enjoy the moment. Arguments arise when the amateur photographer’s enthusiasm feels excessive, or the “just one more” turns into 20 takes.
7. The “where to eat” stand-off

You’re both starving, but no one can agree on a restaurant. One person wants to try something adventurous, while the other just wants a reliable option. The hangry vibes kick in, and suddenly, it feels like choosing dinner is the hardest decision in the world.
8. The over-planning argument

Some people thrive on tight schedules, while others prefer to go with the flow. When the over-planner whips out a colour-coded itinerary, the free spirit in the relationship might feel stifled. Arguments arise when there’s no room for spontaneity—or when things don’t go exactly as planned.
9. The late vs. early riser conflict

One person is up at dawn, eager to seize the day, while the other just wants a proper holiday lie-in. Balancing these different body clocks can lead to frustration, especially when the early riser feels like their day is being wasted, and the late sleeper feels rushed.
10. The “too much alcohol” debate

For some, holidays are a chance to let loose and indulge, while others prefer to keep things more low-key. Arguments can spark when one person feels like the other is overdoing it at the bar—or when differing drinking levels lead to mismatched moods.
11. The packing-too-much-into-one-day stress

Trying to squeeze every activity into one day can lead to exhaustion and frayed tempers. When you’re hot, tired, and over it, disagreements about why you’re rushing around instead of relaxing are almost inevitable. It’s a classic case of expectations vs. reality.
12. The “what’s the plan now?” indecision

Free time can be a blessing and a curse. When you’ve got no plans and endless options, couples can find themselves in a frustrating loop of “I don’t know, what do you want to do?” indecision. With no clear leader, tensions can rise quickly.
13. The “you’re not enjoying this enough” accusation

One person is having the time of their life, but they sense their partner isn’t as enthusiastic. Whether it’s about an activity, a meal, or a location, the fear that one of you isn’t having fun can spark guilt and resentment.
14. The return-to-reality argument

As the holiday winds down, stress about going back to normal life can creep in. Disagreements about unpacking, planning the trip home, or even just who’s responsible for booking transport to the airport can surface. The looming end of paradise often brings out unnecessary tensions.