As you get older, it’s easy to fall into routines and forget the carefree fun of your younger years — I’m guilty of this myself!
But who says you can’t recapture that same playful spirit you had when you were a kid? Whether you’re in a long-term relationship or just starting out, incorporating a bit of playfulness into your romantic life can reignite that spark and make you feel alive again. Here are some fun date ideas to help you turn back the clock.
1. Spend an afternoon at an arcade.
Remember the thrill of winning tickets and battling it out on vintage game machines? Many arcades now cater to adults with retro games and even serve alcohol. Challenge your date to a round of Pac-Man, or try to beat each other’s high scores on pinball. The competitive spirit and nostalgic atmosphere are sure to bring out your inner child.
2. Go roller skating at a local rink.
Lace up those skates and hit the rink for a blast from the past. Don’t worry if you’re a bit wobbly — holding hands for support is all part of the fun. Many rinks have themed nights or play retro music, adding to the throwback vibe. Just be prepared for a few laughs (and maybe a tumble or two) as you rediscover your skating legs.
3. Have a picnic in the park.
Pack a basket with your favourite snacks, grab a blanket, and head to your local park. Bring along some outdoor games like Frisbee or a soccer ball to really channel that youthful energy. There’s something inherently carefree about lounging on the grass, enjoying good food and each other’s company without the distractions of daily life.
4. Try your hand at mini-golf.
Mini-golf courses are designed to bring out the playful side in everyone. Navigate through silly obstacles, laugh at each other’s attempts to get a hole-in-one, and maybe even indulge in a bit of playful trash talk. It’s a low-pressure activity that allows for plenty of conversation and laughter between putts.
5. Spend a day at an amusement park.
Nothing says youthful abandon quite like screaming your head off on a rollercoaster. Spend the day riding thrilling attractions, indulging in fairground food, and trying your luck at carnival games. The excitement and adrenaline rush will make you feel like a teenager again, regardless of your actual age.
6. Have a water balloon fight.
On a hot summer day, surprise your date with a bucket of water balloons. The initial shock will quickly turn to laughter as you chase each other around, trying to land a hit. It’s silly, it’s refreshing, and it’s guaranteed to leave you both in fits of giggles. Just make sure you have some towels handy!
7. Go stargazing in the countryside.
Remember the wonder you felt as a child looking up at the night sky? Recapture that feeling by driving out to a dark spot away from city lights. Lay out a blanket, bring some hot chocolate, and spend the evening pointing out constellations or making wishes on shooting stars. It’s a simple yet magical experience that can make you feel small in the best possible way.
8. Have a board game marathon.
Dust off those old board games and settle in for a night of friendly competition. Whether it’s Monopoly, Scrabble, or Twister, board games have a way of bringing out our playful sides. Add some snacks and your favourite beverages to the mix, and you’ve got a recipe for a fun, nostalgic evening.
9. Go on a bike ride together.
There’s something inherently youthful about riding a bike. The wind in your hair, the freedom to explore — it all takes you back to simpler times. Plan a scenic route, pack a picnic, and spend the day cycling together. You’ll get some exercise, enjoy the outdoors, and maybe even discover new parts of your area.
10. Have an ice cream sundae making contest.
Buy a variety of ice cream flavours and toppings, then challenge each other to create the most outrageous sundae. Don’t hold back — the more colourful and over-the-top, the better. It’s a delicious way to embrace your inner child and indulge your sweet tooth at the same time.
11. Spend an evening at a drive-in movie.
If you’re lucky enough to have a drive-in cinema nearby, it’s a perfect opportunity for a nostalgic date night. Snuggle up in the car, tune in the radio, and enjoy a film under the stars. Don’t forget to bring blankets and your own snacks for the full experience. It’s a charming throwback to simpler times that can make you feel like teenagers on a first date.
12. Visit a trampoline park.
Rediscover the joy of bouncing at a trampoline park. These places aren’t just for kids — they’re a fantastic way for adults to let loose and have fun. Challenge each other to flips or play a bouncy version of dodgeball. It’s a great workout too, though you might feel it in your muscles the next day!
13. Have a karaoke night at home.
Turn your living room into a karaoke bar for the night. Belt out your favourite tunes from your younger days, complete with dramatic performances. Don’t worry about hitting the right notes — it’s all about letting go and having fun. You might be surprised at how liberating it feels to sing your heart out without a care in the world.
14. Go on a scavenger hunt around town.
Create a list of fun or quirky items to find around your local area, then spend the day hunting for them together. It could be anything from “a red front door” to “a shop with a punny name”. This activity encourages exploration and brings out your playful, competitive sides. Plus, you might discover new spots in your town you’ve never noticed before.
15. Have a pillow fort movie night.
Transform your living room into a cosy den with blankets, pillows, and fairy lights. Build a fort like you used to as a kid, then snuggle up inside to watch your favourite films. It’s a perfect blend of childlike fun and grown-up romance. Don’t forget the popcorn and maybe a glass of wine to add a touch of adulthood to your youthful hideaway.
