17 Simple Texts To Send That Can Feel Like A Big Hug

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If you know someone is going through a tough time, or you simply want to let them know they’re on your mind, sending a text is probably your best bet.

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Everyone’s glued to their phones, so you know they’ll see your message pretty quickly, but it’s also low-pressure since they don’t have to respond if they’re not feeling up to it or are a bit busy at the moment. Here are a few simple texts that are sure to brighten up their day, no matter what’s going on.

1. “Just thinking of you. Hope you’re doing okay.”

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This one’s a classic for a reason. It’s short, sweet, and lets someone know they’re on your mind. It’s like a gentle tap on the shoulder, reminding them they’re not alone in whatever they’re going through.

2. “Remember that time we [insert shared memory]? Still makes me smile.”

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Nostalgia can be a powerful mood-lifter. Bringing up a happy shared memory is like offering a mini-vacation from the present, even if just for a moment. It’s a reminder of good times and the bond you share.

3. “You’ve got this. I believe in you.”

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Sometimes, all we need is a cheerleader in our corner. This simple vote of confidence can be a real boost, especially if you know they’re facing a challenge. It’s like giving them an extra dose of strength to tackle whatever’s ahead.

4. “No need to respond. Just want you to know I care.”

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This one’s perfect for when you want to reach out but don’t want to add any pressure. It’s a no-strings-attached reminder that they matter to you, giving them space to respond (or not) as they need.

5. “Saw this [emoji] and thought of you.”

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Whether it’s a coffee cup, a sunflower, or a goofy face, sometimes an emoji says it all. It’s a playful, low-key way to let someone know they crossed your mind, without needing to start a big conversation.

6. “Your [quality] always inspires me. Thanks for being you.”

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Specific compliments can feel extra special. By pointing out a particular quality you admire, you’re showing that you see and appreciate who they truly are. It’s like holding up a mirror to their best self.

7. “No agenda. Just sending some good vibes your way.”

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This one’s great for those friends who might be going through a tough time but aren’t ready to talk about it. It’s a gentle way of saying “I’m here” without prying or expecting anything in return.

8. “Miss your face. Video chat soon?”

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For long-distance friends or family, this can be a warm reminder that distance doesn’t diminish your connection. It’s an invitation to reconnect, wrapped in affection.

9. “Random, but I’m grateful for our friendship.”

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Expressing gratitude out of the blue can be a powerful mood-lifter, both for you and the recipient. It’s like a surprise hug, reminding both of you of the value of your connection.

10. “Tough day? Wish I could bring you ice cream and hugs.”

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If you know they’re having a rough time, this message shows you wish you could be there in person. It’s empathetic and a bit playful, offering comfort even from afar.

11. “Your laugh is one of my favourite sounds.”

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This specific and heartfelt compliment can bring a smile to their face. Obviously, it’s a bit soppy and probably best reserved for a romantic partner, but it’s still a winner. It’s a reminder of happy times together and the joy they bring to your life.

12. “Just a reminder: You’re doing better than you think.”

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We all have moments of self-doubt. This message is like a gentle reality check, offering encouragement and perspective when they might need it most.

13. “If you need an ear, I’ve got two good ones.”

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Sometimes, knowing someone’s willing to listen is all we need. This offer is warm and a bit humorous, making it easy for them to reach out if they need to talk.

14. “Sending you good luck for [specific event]. You’ll rock it!”

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If you know they have something important coming up, this shows you remember and care. It’s like giving them a pep talk right before they step onto their personal stage.

15. “Just because texts are the best. Hope you’re having a good day!”

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Sometimes, the best reason to reach out is no reason at all. This message is pure warmth, letting them know they’re in your thoughts for no special reason other than they matter to you.

16. “You make the world a better place just by being in it.”

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This one’s for when you want to go deep with your affection. It’s a powerful affirmation of their value, not for what they do, but simply for who they are.

17. “If you were here, I’d give you a big hug. Consider this a virtual one.”

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Sometimes, it’s okay to state the obvious. This message directly expresses what you wish you could do in person, bridging the physical gap with emotional warmth.