Sadly, for many people, age doesn’t always bring wisdom.

While you accumulate more experiences with every passing year, not everyone makes the most of the learning opportunities life throws their way, and as a result, they don’t actually become any more intelligent or gain any further insights on life. Here’s how you know that despite advancing in years, someone isn’t actually evolving as a person at all.
1. They refuse to adapt to new technologies.

As the world evolves, they stubbornly cling to outdated methods and technologies. They dismiss smartphones as unnecessary, refuse to learn how to use computers, or complain about social media without trying to understand it. Their resistance isn’t just about preference; it’s a refusal to engage with the changing world around them. Their unwillingness to adapt often leads to increased isolation and a disconnect from modern society.
2. They repeat the same mistakes without learning from them.

Despite years of experience, they continue to make the same errors in their personal or professional life. Whether it’s repeatedly falling for the same type of unsuitable partner or making poor financial decisions, they seem unable to break the cycle. Continually repeating the same mistakes shows a lack of self-reflection and an inability to apply past experiences to current situations, a key aspect of wisdom.
3. They become more set in their prejudices.

Rather than becoming more open-minded with age, they become more entrenched in their biases. They may express increasingly intolerant views about different cultures, generations, or lifestyles. Being so rigid in their thinking demonstrates a failure to grow and adapt to a changing world. Instead of using their years to gain a broader perspective, they narrow their worldview, clinging to outdated stereotypes and misconceptions.
4. They refuse to take responsibility for their actions.

As they age, they continue to blame everybody else for their problems or misfortunes. They may point fingers at their upbringing, society, or bad luck rather than acknowledging their role in their own life outcomes. Their lack of accountability shows an absence of self-awareness and personal growth. True wisdom involves recognising one’s own part in both successes and failures.
5. They gossip more as they get older.

Instead of developing discretion and empathy with age, they become more invested in spreading rumours and talking behind people’s backs. Gossiping more and more often stems from a need to feel important or in-the-know. It indicates a lack of emotional maturity and consideration for other people’s feelings, traits that typically diminish with wisdom.
6. They become more miserly over time.

As they accumulate more resources, they become increasingly tight-fisted rather than generous. They may obsess over small expenses or refuse to help those in need, even when they have the means to do so. Such growing miserliness suggests a failure to understand the broader value of money beyond personal gain, and a lack of perspective on what truly matters in life.
7. They increasingly rely on nostalgia rather than embracing the present.

They constantly hark back to “the good old days,” viewing the past through rose-tinted glasses while criticising the present. The sad thing is, their excessive nostalgia prevents them from appreciating current opportunities and experiences. Instead of using their memories to inform a richer understanding of the present, they use them as an escape, showing an inability to grow and adapt with the times.
8. They become more argumentative about trivial matters.

As they age, they seem to pick more fights over insignificant issues. Whether it’s disputing a minor bill or engaging in petty neighbourhood squabbles, they invest disproportionate energy in trivial conflicts. This behaviour suggests a lack of perspective on what’s truly important in life and an inability to choose their battles wisely, both key aspects of wisdom.
9. They refuse to acknowledge their own ageing process.

They deny the reality of getting older, whether through excessive efforts to appear youthful or by ignoring health concerns. Of course, denial can manifest in risky behaviour or a refusal to make age-appropriate lifestyle changes. True wisdom involves accepting the natural process of ageing gracefully and adapting one’s life accordingly, rather than fighting against the inevitable.
10. They become more inflexible in their routines.

As they get older, they become increasingly rigid in their daily habits, refusing to deviate from established routines. While consistency can be beneficial, their inflexibility extends to rejecting new experiences or better ways of doing things. Their stubborn adherence to routine demonstrates a lack of adaptability and openness to change, qualities that are essential for continued personal growth and wisdom.
11. They fail to evolve their communication style.

Despite changing social norms, they cling to outdated or offensive ways of speaking. They may use inappropriate terms or make insensitive jokes, dismissing criticism as “political correctness gone mad”. Refusing to adapt their language shows an unwillingness to consider other people’s perspectives and a lack of social awareness, both of which are important components of wisdom.
12. They become more judgmental of younger generations.

Rather than offering understanding or mentorship, they become increasingly critical of younger people. They may complain about “kids these days” without attempting to understand the unique challenges faced by different generations. Such a judgmental attitude reveals a failure to recognise that each generation faces its own set of circumstances, a key insight that comes with true wisdom.
13. They refuse to ask for or accept help when needed.

As they encounter age-related challenges, they stubbornly refuse assistance, often to their own detriment. Whether it’s declining medical advice or rejecting offers of help with daily tasks, their pride prevents them from accepting necessary support. Their behaviour shows a lack of humility and self-awareness, both crucial elements of wisdom that should develop with age.
14. They become more prone to conspiracy theories.

Instead of developing a more nuanced understanding of the world, they become increasingly susceptible to simplistic explanations and conspiracy theories. They may share unverified information on social media or express paranoid views about government or societal institutions. Their growing gullibility demonstrates a failure to cultivate critical thinking skills and discernment, key components of wisdom.
15. They prioritise being right over maintaining relationships.

As they age, they become more invested in proving their point than in preserving harmony in their relationships. They may engage in lengthy arguments or hold grudges over minor disagreements. By doing this, they’re showing a lack of emotional intelligence and an inability to recognise the greater value of human connections over being right, a key aspect of wisdom that should develop with life experience.
16. They become less curious about the world around them.

Rather than maintaining a sense of wonder and curiosity about life, they become increasingly disinterested in learning new things. They may show little interest in current events, cultural developments, or scientific advancements. Their diminishing curiosity indicates a closing of the mind, rather than the expansion of perspective and knowledge that typically accompanies wisdom gained through years of life experience.